Since I had put this blog down for a really long time, I’d like to spend some time in my next few posts catching up on finishes.
Today I’d like to feature a project I finished a few months ago, and it’s the blanket I referenced in my post about using your handiwork as a meditative practice. I made this for myself, and while I worked on it, I was very mindful of the thoughts going through my head. I made sure I was relaxed and happy while making it, and I envisioned myself all wrapped up in it, cozy, maybe reading a good book and drinking a cup of tea. I let my imagination guide my intentions.
Imaginging good things for other people as I work on something for them is not a super-new concept for me, but imaginging good things for myself as I worked on a piece was pretty new. It was eye-opening!
Anyway, here is my Changing Tides Blanket. It was designed by Eleonora of Coastal Crochet, and is a free CAL (crochet-a-long) pattern on her site, or you can pay for an ad-free pattern.
This is the largest, most complicated crochet piece I have done to date. I’d say the pattern is good for someone with intermediate (or perhaps adventurous beginner) crochet skills.
I should note it really wasn’t THAT hard to do, even though it may look complicated. The pattern was very well written and had excellent photos and tutorials to guide you, and there is a Facebook group for support. I feel like my crochet skills grew quite a bit in the completion of this piece.
What are your recent wins or finishes? Leave a comment and tell me!
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When I learned how to do a granny square all those years ago (and someday I’ll write my crochet origin story), I had no idea where crochet would take me. For instance, despite my early efforts with thread crochet resulting in my swearing and thread sailing across the room (those tiny hooks were soooo frustrating!), it is now my favorite medium. But how to best use this skill now that I’ve learned it?
I’ve always been a bit of an old soul, appreciating antiques and older decorative items that most modern homes would not feature.
Take doilies, for instance. When I was very little, I have a memory of my great-grandmother’s home having doilies on the armrests or headrests of upholstered chairs. I thought they were beautiful! I didn’t realize until later, though, that doilies served a function: they’d prevent wear and tear on the furniture while being pretty and decorative.
I’ve also seen doilies on credenzas under vases, on dressers under family photos, or on end tables under lamps. They’re so lacy, lightweight, and beautiful, and I admit I’ve fallen in love with them!
What I didn’t realize until recently was how much other people would appreciate them, too. I posted a finished doily with a small write-up elsewhere last year, and people were moved to ask me about them. I am now making doilies for other people!
Here is the doily that started all of that:
I was at an LYS (local yarn store) one day last year and sitting around the table with other fiber crafters, crocheting a baby blanket. The woman next to me was making this doily. She shared the designer’s name and I immediately hopped over to the Internet and bought the pattern. (Which was tough to do, considering I had terrible cell signal in that store, LOL, but I was committed!)
I’m so chuffed doilies are making a comeback. We may no longer put them on our furniture to protect armrests and cushions from wear, but we can still use them decoratively. I used this one under an LED pillar candle at Christmastime last year, and it looked so pretty!
Thanks, friends, for appreciating and supporting my handiwork. You’ve made this old soul happy, and I’m always happy to share my love of crafting with you.
Below is a rare crosspost from one of my other blogs, positively b.e.e. The reason I am crossposting is I think people who follow a crafts/DIY blog will get something out of the concept of using our crafts as a meditative practice. Enjoy! (And if you like what you see, consider subscribing to positively b.e.e.!)
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Happy Autumn! At the time I am drafting this post, fall has just ticked over from summer, and we are feeling that shift here in Pittsburgh. I am enjoying the cool mornings, warm and sunny afternoons, and crisp evenings, and I plan to enjoy every minute of it.
Most people “hate” this change over from summer because they know winter is coming soon after, but I choose to live in the moment and take it for what it is: gorgeous weather. There will be time to complain about rain and snow soon enough. 🙂
We all know that 2020 has been a you-know-what, am I right? There are so many lessons in this year. For this month’s post, I wanted to talk about how you can use hobbies to gain some peace. I’ve mentioned it before, both in writing and in talks I’ve given—indeed, I was supposed to give a workshop on this topic in Sedona this past spring, but that never happened—so let’s talk about it here instead!
As you may know from past posts, I’m really into prayer, meditation, and intuition work as a source of being true to myself, to always make decisions based on that truth, and to keep my blood pressure and stress hormone levels low. Paying attention to and developing these skills has brought me a great deal of peace in my life: reducing anxiety, helping me sleep better, and keeping me clear-minded. But it was only in the last several years that I realized I could apply these concepts to my crafting hobbies.
You see, I used to be a stressy crafter. I used to craft as a means of escape, but would often find myself ruminating in the background. I had the wrong idea of what “escape” meant. My mind was so focused on what was bothering me that soon I’d find I was stabbing the fabric when I cross-stitched, tightening my tension too much in my knitting, or constantly breaking my singles while spinning yarn due to not paying attention to my drafting.
But now, I realize that “escape” is really transcendence, that I can craft my way to peace by being mindful about what I’m doing instead of ruminating. Keep reading…
I’ve turned crafting into my own form of meditation.
There are five steps you can take to start turning your hobby into a meditative practice and pass along all that good energy to others while you’re at it. Here are the 5 steps I take every time I sit down to work on a hobby:
Breathe and stretch — before picking up my piece, I take a good 5–10 deep breaths. I stretch my neck, my hands, roll my shoulders, and shake out any tension from the day.
Focus — I focus on the craft I’m about to pick up. For example, if I’m going to crochet, then I put myself into “crochet mind” by envisioning myself using the hook to make something beautiful.
Set an intention — whoever the recipient is going to be (including myself), I imagine that person in my mind and set a nice wish for them. I picture them wearing it or using it or smiling upon opening it. I imagine them happy and at peace. I might think of a specific situation that I want to turn out well for them and say prayers for them. This is where intuition can step in and help, too: what is your intuition telling you about what the recipient needs? You can pick up on that and focus on something good for them based on that nudge.
Work mindfully—once I’ve done steps 1–3, I pick up the piece and begin. As I work, I continue to engage my breathing. Deep breaths in and out; no shallow breathing. I also focus on keeping my tension even. If I start to tense up, or feel my shoulders start to rise, I take a second to regroup, breathe, and focus on even tension. I refocus on happy things for the person I’m working the piece for. Mindfulness is the name of the game in this step.
Don’t ruminate! — energy transference is real, and I don’t want to infuse the piece with anything negative. If I find my mind chewing on problems, I stop, regroup, breathe, then continue working. I stay focused on the task at hand; not my problems, the world’s problems, or any other problems I could possibly dream up. If I start to ruminate, I might smile to myself to break the cycle, then…you guessed it: take a second to breathe, set my intention and envision happy things for the recipient again, and only then do I continue. If I can’t get this last part right, then I put the piece down. (More about that in the next section.)
Energy Transference and Crafting
Some people take their crafts to the next level by learning new skills. I take mine to the next level with energy and intention. Some folks don’t believe energy transference is real, but have you ever found yourself around someone really negative and not wanted to hang out with them any more? Your crafts (and any recipients, including yourself) are similarly affected.
Don’t put your bad mood into your work. Level yourself up by using intention and breath work. If you want to take your crafting into a safe space, where you can GET AWAY from your problems, not ruminate or stress out, taking steps 1–5 above are a great way to do that. I promise you it’s next-level stuff. You may even find you’re branching out in your actual skills as you engage with this new way of crafting. I can’t tell you what this has done for my own abilities!
This process has become so important to me, so ingrained into my lifestyle now, that if I’m in a bad mood, stressed out, etc., I absolutely WILL NOT pick up a craft until I shift my mindset. I will not put any negativity into that piece, especially since most of what I make now goes to other people. Why would I give them a gift that has anything negative attached to it?
Here are some scenarios you can consider, followed by suggested answers/intentions.
How would a new parent feel about that gorgeous baby blanket you made swaddling their precious newborn if they knew you were angsty and angry about politics while making it? (Put politics aside and imagine that newborn growing up happy, healthy, cute, and giggly as they have tummy time and learn to crawl on that beautiful blanket.)
How would your mom feel while wearing the gorgeous necklace you made for her birthday if she knew you were upset about something the entire time you made it? (Why are you upset? Identify and deal with it, then take steps 1–5 and work on the necklace for your mom without those bad feelings; imagine her smiling beautifully and feeling thrilled as she proudly wears your elegant creation.)
How would your child feel hugging the new stuffed animal you sewed for them if they knew you cried over it every night while you made it because that was the only time you had to yourself and could let out your tears? (It’s tough being a parent, and parents often hide their feelings while putting their kids first. Have your cry first, then take steps 1–5 and sew that stuffy with a clear mind while imagining your kiddo enjoying the heck out of their new toy.)
How would a cancer patient feel wearing the chemo cap you made for them if they knew it had all your work frustrations stuck in it? (Look, we all have work frustrations. Moan about it to a coworker or friend first to get it out of your system. Then set an intention for that cancer patient, that they will be warm and comforted by this hat and that they will regain full health; imagine them vibrant and happy and resuming activities they love to do.)
Do you see how using your imagination is a part of setting your intentions? By taking a few moments to center yourself, breathe, envision positive things, watch your tension levels, etc., you are helping both yourself and the recipient of your gift.
This applies even if the item you’re making is for yourself. By having a mindful crafting practice, you are helping yourself doubly. I absolutely ADORE a blanket I made for myself and feel so comforted by it because I know I am wrapped up in not only soft and squishy yarn, but in the positive feelings and intent I set for myself while I made it.
Take Breaks for Physical Health and Flow
Finally, in order to make sure you stay healthy physically along with all this awesome emotional work you’re doing, make sure you take some breaks. Don’t get a repetitive stress injury (RSI) by doing a craft or hobby for too long. On your breaks, drink water or herbal tea and stretch. Do a little bit of flow, like Yoga, Tai Chi, Qi gong, or walking around. Keep that healthy, deep breathing pattern going. When you resume the project, remember to keep your intention in mind and stay in that positive mindset as you work. You can apply the concepts I use to any hobby, too, as far as I can tell. Imagine following a similar process whether you’re a knitter, crocheter, painter, jeweler, stamp collector, scrapbooker, woodworker, metalworker, sculptor…. The important thing is to breathe, flow, and set your intention to be a positive one.
The bottom line is: hobby time is an opportunity to create a mindful and meditative state that positively affects both yourself and others.
Drop me a comment and tell me:
Have you been crafting or hobbying during the pandemic? If so, what are you making or doing?
If not, do you think you might try it again using these techniques to “meditate”?
Have you ever done anything like what I do?
I look forward to hearing from you!
Oh, and if you want to follow my crafting projects, you can find them on my newly resurrected Crafting/DIY blog!
Be safe, be well, and take care. Till next time! 💛🐝
By the time this posts, it’ll be a couple of weeks after the event, but I wanted to gather my thoughts regarding the loss of an amazing human being, one who inspired the yarn community not only with her designs, but with her personality, demeanor, and, after she got sick, her resilience and attitude.
Cat Bordhi was one of the very first “famous” knitting designers I’d ever heard of. She was one of those names that I just kept seeing in various contexts, whether it was class announcements, appearances at yarn stores, or in the Ravelry forums.
I enjoyed reading Cat’s blog, and her designs are just so beautiful. I was a bit intimidated when I first saw her patterns—everything she’s designed just looks so elegant—but I needn’t have been. I have several of her patterns in my “to-do wishlist,” but I’m reminded that time can be short, so if I want to do them, I should.
When Cat announced she was dying, she did it with grace, dignity, and an acceptance that I hope I’d have if I were in a similar situation. Plus, she wrote beautifully. I really respected and admired her for her messages of hope to everyone in her final days, and was glad to hear she was able to be with her loved ones through it, especially given how COVID-19 has sometimes separated families from each other.
Although I never had the opportunity to meet her, I wish I had.
Cat Bordhi died on September 19, 2020. May she rest in peace and her memory live on through her work and writing. ❤
Howdy all! I know it’s been a long time, but I put this site down for a little while to start a business, do some writing, and figure out some priorities.
But I’ve missed this place, and I look forward to sharing my projects with you again. I have been consistently crafting again, and indeed, one of the books I’m writing is on the topic of crafting. I’m also writing a couple of crochet patterns with an accompanying e-book, but I can’t really go into those details yet due to super-secret gifting plans for the holidays. I expect to publish with the new year.
Anyway, this post is simply to say “hi” and “I’m back again,” and I hope you’re all doing well. Stay tuned for more!
I have launched a new blog over here and would love it if you would follow me there and subscribe with the handy dandy little button at the top!
While this blog will still be occasionally used for knitting and art projects, the other one will have more broad content regarding life and how to stay positive throughout all the stuff we go through. I’ve realized in the past year or two that I’ve been drawn to writing my perspectives on things that are outside the scope of this blog’s purpose.
Are done! I kind of hate the heels, they seem to poof out weirdly and I think will fit inside a shoe weirdly. That said, they are comfy and warm and will be great around the house on cold nights! As usual, I love the yarn, which is Socks That Rock lightweight, colorway: Ghoulash.